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改變的勇氣

Posted on April 12, 2021May 28, 2021 by DnA

如果一份工作給你優渥的薪水,老闆以禮相待,工作駕輕就熟,偶有煩心之事卻不亂心,工作合約還保障了一生一世,這樣的工作你捨得離開嗎?我就這麼得在一間公司待了13年。剛開始前三年工作輕鬆到我覺得我年紀輕輕的應該會廢掉,接下來三年為了自己的雄心壯志沒人逼我,出差出到整個身體快垮掉,接下來五年為了證明自己也因為工作有趣,拋頭顱灑熱血的放掉了原本的團隊,然後又一個人把一個事業作起來重新建立團隊,再來的兩年開始收割過去的努力,靠著成熟的遠見跟管理技巧做的都是策略性的事務,每天工作太輕鬆突然覺得失去了動力。這13年來有沒有想過換工作,有,太輕鬆想換,太操想換,但卻都因為那份薪水與保障,沒敢換。30幾歲的時候想,換了我的位置在哪裡?40幾歲想,自己還有沒有戰鬥力再拼一場? 但今天,我換了。不知道哪裡來的勇氣。

說不知道是哪裡來的勇氣並不真確,一方面是自己的能力提升底氣足了,一方面是騎馬讓我又年輕了一次。

人生永遠要感謝生命中的逆境菩薩。我生命中有三個老闆,給了我不同的啟發。第一個老闆,思路邏輯清楚到嚇人,所有的思考都是以成交為目的,他不作爛好人一類的事,他教我所有的東西都是” give & take” ,什麼能夠give,什麼該敢開口take,他並非比一般人市儈,而是在忙忙碌碌中,他看的清楚這一切是在發生什麼事,我從他身上學到「保持清醒」。第二個老闆,溫文儒雅,我像是急驚風遇到慢郎中,我常常總是一股腦的要告訴客人我們的產品有多好,他卻跟我說「這些都是你本來就知道的,你要讓客人說出你不知道的,這樣你才知道客戶要的是什麼」,我從他身上學到「傾聽」。第三個老闆是個智商極高的過動兒,到處放火讓我收不完,因為他過動所以他涉獵極廣,跟著他做事,搞定自己公司是基本的,瞭解自己產業發生什麼事,相關產業的正在做什麼變革並從中群找商機,從他身上我學到「如何培養遠見」。每個老闆都有我受不了的點,但我總告訴自己,老天爺一定是要讓我學到某些東西,只是我資質孥頓,實在看不出來除了壓力跟折磨到底要學啥?不過每當離開每一個老闆,我都有脫胎換骨的成長。我的學習從未停止,跨專業、跨領域的我都不斷嘗試,所以把我丟到哪,我應該都能活下去。

靠腦力我通常不擔心,遇到天才就加倍努力,通常都能克服,但是人的身體與習慣卻是隨著歲月清楚的告訴你,這是你無法克服的。騎馬讓我走出了舒適圈,不管是心態上還是體力上。因為愛騎馬,就算沒人陪我,我也是勇敢的加入了一堆荷蘭人的行程,在這裡面沒人知道你是哪家公司的高管,你的馬術與自信就是你的名片。記得當初學習馬上快跑時,在團體課中,我總是默默禱告,快跑得這一部份趕快過,因為我完全掌握不住,覺得我隨時會落馬,尤其當教練讓大家一個一個輪流快跑時,所有目光的壓力,再加上對快跑速度無法克服的壓力,每次上完課我都死了幾萬個細胞,我面臨但一個兩難,要嘛放棄騎馬,要嘛學好快跑,這不像唸書或工作不喜歡可以繞過去,不學好在馬上就是風險,於是我上了私人教練課克服了對快跑速度趕的恐懼,也學會如何掌握快跑中的馬。從馬上摔下來,就得馬上爬回去,這是贏得馬的尊敬還有克服恐懼的最高原則,騎馬就得有摔馬的準備,摔了馬就要不怕痛的爬回去,怕不怕?怕,但是現在不上馬以後就更怕再也上不了馬,我學會了不怕失敗、再接再勵挑戰。不是每一匹馬都是好騎的,有的馬熱愛狂奔,有的馬容易受驚,常常馬一失控,考驗的就是冷靜的頭腦,我也越來越學會在失控的環境中不慌不亂。當然改變最大的就是我的體力,以前秀展站一天都覺得快往生了,現在三天站下來一點感覺都沒有,因為體力好,做事就不容易放棄,因為體力好,就覺得向年輕一樣,我什麼都可以。

走出工作的舒適圈是困難的,尤其當地法令一生一世的合約,對中年人而言,覺得老死在一家公司也是一種保障,但是不走出去,以後就更不可能走出去,而靠著保障而不是能力活下來的工作,難道真的是保障?而問問自己,到底有沒有能力與體力去接受新的挑戰呢?每個人的個性決定了他的命運,我總是要在操勞中才覺得真正的活著,總是要在挑戰中,才覺得人生又長進了一些,我的人生,接受改變,走向另一個篇章。

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